Category: Healthylife® QuitWell™

There are many ways to practice quitting before getting all the way there. You can improve your health even before you feel “all in”.

*  Leave your pack, can, or vape pen home when you go out for short errands. Try leaving products home when you go to work one day.

*  If you are a smoker, put a certain number of cigarettes in a pack for the day. Try to put one or two less in the pack than you’d normally smoke. If you usually smoke a full pack, take a few out at the beginning of the day so “finishing the pack” means smoking 18 instead of 20 cigarettes. After a few days, cut out one or two more.

*  Put your cigarettes, can, or vape pen out of reach in your car. Maybe keep them in the trunk of your car, or in the backseat. When you want to have one, you will need to pull over to the side of the road to safely get it. When you do, just take one. This makes your habit a lot less convenient. Practice working through an urge while you are deciding if you want to pull over or keep going.

What are some other ways you can practice change?

Taking small steps can help build confidence. Seeing the “wins” right away can show you how strong and capable of change you are. The activities in this section may not feel very exciting, but they are small on purpose. Once you get going, taking bigger steps will feel easier and you will be more successful with them.

These activities can also help you learn more about what causes your urges and what you do without thinking. These activities can start weakening your old habits and strengthening new, healthy habits.

Go around your house, car, workplace, and other places you have stored tobacco products. Gather all your tobacco, lighters, matches, and other items related to your habit. Don’t forget to check your coats, purses, and drawers.

If you have quit, throw these products away. Seeing these items will not be helpful to staying quit. If you are still working on quitting, having all these items out of sight will also reduce the unhelpful reminders of your habits. You will be more ready for the day you quit completely.

Relapse triggers can be placed into one of four groups:

1. Emotional relapse triggers

2. Interpersonal relapse triggers

3. Internal relapse triggers

4. Environmental relapse triggers

Emotional Relapse Triggers

These are events in which either uncomfortable feelings, such as boredom, sadness and worry or positive feelings, such as joy, happiness, or being relaxed increase the chances you might use tobacco/nicotine. Which of the following have been triggers for you in the past?

*  When I am happy and celebrating

*  When I am relaxed

*  When I feel tired

*  When I am bored or have nothing to do

*  When I am alone and feeling sad

*  When I am frustrated or angry about something

*  When I feel unsure and rejected by someone

*  When I am worried about a loved one

*  When I am afraid

*  When I am tense and restless

*  When I am put under pressure at my job

Interpersonal Relapse Triggers

These are events in which you may feel either direct or indirect pressure from other people. Which of the following have been triggers for you in the past?

*  When other people around me are using tobacco/nicotine

*  When someone offers me tobacco/nicotine

*  When I want to show how tough, sophisticated, or liberated I am

*  When I want to fit in with others who are using tobacco/nicotine

*  When I want to feel different from other people

*  When I become angry with someone

*  When my friend or spouse goes back to using tobacco/nicotine after quitting

*  When I want to avoid talking to a friend or spouse

*  When I feel “trapped” in a relationship

*  When I am upset that I cannot solve a problem with another person

Internal Relapse Triggers

These are times when you may have an urge without having a clear-cut reason. Which of the following have been triggers for you in the past?

*  When I get a strong craving

*  When I have intense withdrawal signals

*  When I have a feeling of emptiness

*  When I want to test my willpower by smoking just one cigarette (or having just one dip, etc.)

*  When I am curious about the taste of a cigarette, e-cigarette, or chew

*  When I have a difficult time paying attention

*  When I think smoking/vaping/chewing is going to make a situation more fun

*  When I’ve had too much to drink

*  When I am hungry

*  When I have trouble falling asleep

*  When I wake up at night and can’t get back to sleep

*  When I’m having pain in my body (back pain, headache, cramps, etc.)

Environmental Relapse Triggers

Certain times, places, and activities may be linked with your tobacco/nicotine habit. Which of the following have been triggers for you in the past?

*  When I come across a pack of cigarettes, can of chewing tobacco, or discarded e-cigarette

*  When I’m in a store where I used to buy tobacco/nicotine

*  When I take a break from work

*  When I drink coffee

*  When I finish a meal

*  After sex

*  When I first get up in the morning

*  When having fun/doing activities that were triggers in the past (e.g. playing cards, during a concert intermission, fishing, hunting, golfing)

*  When driving

*  When partying

*  When I’m on vacation

*  When I put off an unpleasant task

A tobacco/nicotine addiction has a degree of control over you, your time, the places you can go, and your experiences. Smoking steals your breath and your appearance over time. It also dims the world around you by dulling your senses of smell and taste.

Imagine taking a vacation to somewhere you’ve always dreamed of seeing. Now imagine being too out of breath to enjoy a hike, standing outside on the deck to smoke while your traveling companions enjoy a shipboard show, stopping to smoke when you’d rather be in the water swimming or paddle boarding. Imagine not being able to fully enjoy your dream vacation.

*  How does your current habit affect your life?

*  What could you enjoy more if you left tobacco/nicotine behind?

*  Relationships, career goals, financial goals, and other areas of life can also be affected. What other “big picture” goals do you have in your life right now?

*  How would cutting back or quitting support these goals?

Keep working hard on your other goals-you may find that seeing yourself succeed helps you feel more ready to tackle quitting.

Start with changing how you react to minor annoyances, like traffic or a chatty co-worker. Work to reduce the number of things that push your buttons. It is not the event itself that determines your feelings-it is what you tell yourself about it. You may have some truly big, serious stressors in your life. Avoid piling the little things on top.

“Men are not disturbed by things, but by the views they take of them.”  – Epictetus

Let’s pretend you got stuck in a traffic jam on the way to work today. You feel angry and upset. But it is not the traffic jam that makes you upset. It is what you tell yourself that upsets you: “I’m going to be late for work.” “I have so much to do.” “This is such a waste of time.”

You cannot change the fact that you are stuck in traffic. Getting angry serves no purpose. If you can look at the delay as a minor problem that you can’t control, rather than a major event, you will feel much better. When your mind stays calm, you may even see ways around the issue, like taking another route or using hands-free calling to join a meeting you’re running late for.

Your outlook on quitting is also very important. If you tell yourself that quitting will be awful, chances are the process will be as bad as you think. If you accept the fact that you will have urges, but nothing you can’t handle, you will have an easier time quitting. Focus on what is gained from quitting, not on what is being lost or the minor discomfort along the way.

Thinking Differently

You can change how you think, feel, and react to any event. The ABCDE model can help you do this.

Activating Event:An event that triggers thoughts and feelings. Example – “I am trying to quit smoking and this event is making me anxious.”

Belief:What you think or say to yourself about the activating event. Examples – “I just can’t quit.” “I don’t have any willpower.”

Consequence:How you feel in response to your beliefs. Examples – “I feel discouraged.” “I feel embarrassed and defeated.”

Dispute:Question your earlier beliefs. Examples – “Wait a minute here, I can do hard things!” “I don’t need to rely on willpower to quit. I can apply skills I’m learning in QuitWell™.”

Effect:How you feel after you dispute your earlier beliefs. Examples – “I can succeed.” “I feel my actions are within my control.” “I can handle this.”