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Tag: anxiety

  • Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents

    FAMILY LIFE

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    How do you manage a child who gets stomachaches every school morning? Or one who refuses to go to after-school activities? Or who is trapped in the bathroom with frequent hand washing?

    One in every 5 kids suffers from a diagnosable anxiety disorder. Experts Reid Wilson, professor of psychiatry at the University of North Carolina School of Medicine, and Lynn Lyons, a social worker and psychotherapist, say anxiety disorders are the number one reason why parents bring a child to a mental health professional.

    “When kids grow and step into new experiences, they should have questions and uncertainties. Worry becomes a problem when a child is consistently avoiding activities or experiences that are a normal part of development,” according to these experts.

    How do you know if your child may have anxiety? Wilson and Lyons, authors of Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents: 7 Ways to Stop the Worry Cycle and Raise Courageous & Independent Children, say to look for the following behaviors and see a mental health professional with your concerns (worry, they say, may run in families):

    *  They cling to you.

    *  They refuse to try new activities.

    *  They continually ask you for reassurance of their “what if” questions.

    *  They feel sick and complain of aches, pains, and nausea.

    *  They avoid school or cry or throw tantrums if you force them to go.

    *  They act shy and don’t talk in class or around others.

    *  They worry about future or past events (“I will look stupid reading this book report” or “Did I make my best friend mad?” or “Something bad is going to happen to my family”).

    Children can learn to manage their uncertainty, but sometimes it takes a professional to help.

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine

  • Managing Financial Stress

    FINANCIAL HEALTH

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    Do finances keep you awake at night? If so, you’re not alone. More than 75 percent of Americans say money is a big source of stress, according to the American Psychological Association (APA).

    Although we can’t always change our financial problems right away, we can learn to cope with this type of stress. This can help you stay healthier and learn to deal with challenges in a positive way.

    If you’re stressed about money, try these tips:

    *Remain calm and make a plan.It can be easy to get caught up in the panic of the moment when a problem arises. A sudden expense needed for an emergency or stories about a “bad economy” in the news can make things feel hopeless. Instead, think about small steps you can take now to improve your budget. This may be writing down a few specific ways you can cut back on expenses. Or, look at your past spending and make a plan to cut back on things you can do without for now.

    *Look at the positive side of being thrifty.Eating meals at home instead of at a restaurant can be a fun family bonding time. Have everyone help prepare the meal or pick out their favorite dish for the weekly menu. Can’t afford a fitness membership? Exercise with a family member or friend at home and make it fun.

    *Be proud of progress.If you saved $5 by making your coffee at home rather than buying it at a coffee shop, that’s a step in the right direction. Think about the little ways you can save money and how they add up over time. These small successes can get you to your goal.

    *If you can’t pay your bills, ask for help.Banks, utilities and credit card companies will often give you extra time to pay if you’re in a financial crisis. It doesn’t hurt to call and ask.

    *Identify unhealthy behaviors.If you deal with stress by drinking alcohol, smoking or gambling, this will often make matters worse. Not only do these habits cost more money, but they can cost you your health, job and relationships. Healthy ways to cope with stress include exercise, deep breathing, eating a balanced diet, listening to music or calling a friend. If you need help with unhealthy behaviors, ask your doctor or look into community support groups.

    Source: American Psychological Association

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine

  • Back-To-School Stress Busters

    FAMILY LIFE

    Smiling child with backpack on.

    Going back to school is a big transition for kids. Providing extra support and understanding can ensure a smooth start to the school year and a positive school experience.

    Ease into a daily routine

    A week or two before school starts, gradually establish an appropriate sleep and meal schedule. A tired or hungry child will struggle to manage their feelings. Set them up for success.

    Plan a daily chat time

    It doesn’t have to be long, but set aside ten or fifteen minutes to check in with your child. Ask questions and let them share their thoughts and feelings about their day.

    Make time for play

    Play is how kids relax and make sense of the world around them. Unstructured play should be a non-negotiable part of your child’s day.

    If your child is struggling, it helps to talk to your pediatrician. Your healthcare provider can recommend stress management techniques or address any other needs your child may have.

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine