Tag: calm

  • Forget Shouting

    WELL-BEING

    Image of 2 men talking.

    While many people try to steer clear of arguments with family members, two Vanderbilt University philosophy professors offer a better solution.

    Scott F. Aikin and Robert B. Talisse co-wrote Why We Argue (and How We Should): A Guide to Political Disagreement. The trend to avoid arguments with loved ones has more to do with how bad we are at arguing than how strong our beliefs are, according to Aikin. “The better solution would be to improve our skill at making arguments in ways that allow for better, more reasoned exchange.”

    Aikin and Talisse suggest the following:

    *  Remember that reasonable and intelligent people disagree about important matters. Keep this in mind even when your relative says something appalling.

    *  When arguing, be sure to acknowledge your family member’s good points.

    *  Be prepared to say what it would take for you to change your mind. Consider what evidence would make your view wrong.

    *  Know the weak points about your view. Be able to articulate what the best arguments against your view are.

    “Acknowledging the opposition’s good points and seeing troubles for your own side are too often taken to be a sign of weakness,” Aikin said. “But it’s that attitude that actually makes us bad at argument and makes argumentative exchange so unpleasant and dogmatic. Instead, these habits make exchanges more reasonable and productive.”

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine

  • Take The Hectic Out Of Mornings

    WELL-BEING

    Image of family enjoying breakfast and the morning paper.

    Do you find your mornings feel rushed and stressful? There are some things you can do to make them better. A few simple steps can help your mornings go more smoothly.

    Get up at the same time each day.

    Having a regular wake-up time sets your body’s internal clock. This helps you fall asleep on time and get up feeling refreshed. Even if you don’t have to be up that early on the weekends, it’s good to set your alarm and get up anyway. This will keep your sleep routine consistent.

    Stretch your muscles.

    Stretches are relaxing and can be energizing. Stretching for just 15 minutes a day can improve your sleep by up to 30 percent.

    Eat right in the morning.

    A healthy breakfast gives you more energy. It may also help you set the tone for healthy habits throughout your day. Up to 500 milligrams of caffeine (about four cups of coffee) is okay for most people, but don’t exceed this amount. Too much caffeine makes it hard to fall asleep at bedtime, setting you up for a sleepy morning.

    Move your body.

    Just 30 minutes of exercise can help boost your energy and improve your sleep. This sets you up for a more restful night and a better morning. People who exercise in the morning may have less trouble falling asleep.

    Sources: National Sleep Foundation; Produce for Better Health Foundation

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine