Tag: coping

  • Identify Emotions That Prompt You To Eat

    Healthylife® Weigh

    Part 6

    Top view of woman on the sofa eating a healthy salad.

    Indicate how often the following scenarios apply to you.

    *  When I’m angry or upset, I think, “I don’t care what I eat or how much I eat.”

    *  When I see something tasty, I eat it but regret it later. I find myself saying, “Why did I just do that? I didn’t really want it.”

    *  When I have a craving for something, it is very difficult for me not to satisfy it right away. I may feel frustrated until I have it.

    *  When I’m stressed, I tell myself, “I can take a break from eating healthy so I can focus on the stressful things. I will get back on track later.”

    *  When I am eating with my friends or family, I can’t seem to stick to my healthy plans.

    *  Once I start eating something I really like, I have a hard time stopping, even when I want to.

    *  I find myself saying, “Oh, what the heck, I blew it anyway. I might as well eat whatever I want.”

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine

  • Relieve The Pressure

    Healthylife® Weigh

    Part 6

    Multi-generation family enjoying christmas meal at home.

    Avoiding all holiday food challenges is nearly impossible. Adjust your goals and your action plan for success during this time. Your goal may be to “maintain, don’t gain” during a holiday season.

    Celebration days throughout the year are likely a small fraction of your overall year. Of course, stretching celebration days into weeks and months as a “holiday season” can pose challenges to your healthy goals. Even during traditional “holiday seasons,” stick with your healthy habits on nearly all days.

    Healthy Holiday Strategies:

    *  Have a healthy snack (fiber-rich carbohydrate + protein & a healthy fat) before going to the event.

    *  Keep a drink in your hand (choose water most of the time) and sip throughout the event.

    *  Avoid tables with appetizers and food. Talk with others away from where snacks are served.

    *  Prioritize exercise. This will help you manage stress and keep your metabolism running hot.

    *  Focus on people, not food. Visit friends and relatives. Take non-food gifts, such as flowers.

    *  Modify meals to include less sugar, saturated fat, and sodium.

    *  Create new traditions that are not planned around food. Do volunteer work or plan a hike/outdoor adventure with friends and family.

    *  Use stress management tools in this guide.

    *  Get enough quality sleep.

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine

  • Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents

    FAMILY LIFE

    Image of young child.

    How do you manage a child who gets stomachaches every school morning? Or one who refuses to go to after-school activities? Or who is trapped in the bathroom with frequent hand washing?

    One in every 5 kids suffers from a diagnosable anxiety disorder. Experts Reid Wilson, professor of psychiatry at the University of North Carolina School of Medicine, and Lynn Lyons, a social worker and psychotherapist, say anxiety disorders are the number one reason why parents bring a child to a mental health professional.

    “When kids grow and step into new experiences, they should have questions and uncertainties. Worry becomes a problem when a child is consistently avoiding activities or experiences that are a normal part of development,” according to these experts.

    How do you know if your child may have anxiety? Wilson and Lyons, authors of Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents: 7 Ways to Stop the Worry Cycle and Raise Courageous & Independent Children, say to look for the following behaviors and see a mental health professional with your concerns (worry, they say, may run in families):

    *  They cling to you.

    *  They refuse to try new activities.

    *  They continually ask you for reassurance of their “what if” questions.

    *  They feel sick and complain of aches, pains, and nausea.

    *  They avoid school or cry or throw tantrums if you force them to go.

    *  They act shy and don’t talk in class or around others.

    *  They worry about future or past events (“I will look stupid reading this book report” or “Did I make my best friend mad?” or “Something bad is going to happen to my family”).

    Children can learn to manage their uncertainty, but sometimes it takes a professional to help.

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine

  • Are You Driving Yourself To Burnout?

    SUCCESS OVER STRESS

    Image of elevated train and cars on road.

    Commuting length, distance, and means are stress factors that can lead to burnout, said Annie Barreck of the University of Montreal’s School of Industrial Relations.

    By car:

    No surprises: the bigger the city, the more stressful the commute, at least for people traveling by car. Passengers are more likely to be stressed out than drivers because carpooling reduces the passenger commuters’ sense of control, which causes them more stress before they’ve even arrived at work.

    By public transit:

    People with long commutes from rural areas via bus or train connections are stressed about uncontrollable delays. The stress carries over into the workplace. But transit users in major urban areas are less likely to have symptoms of burnout.

    By bike or on foot:

    Biking is also a mixed bag that is determined by the area the commuter is working in. Commuting by bike in the suburbs is more stressful than biking in the city where cyclists and walkers have access to safety features such as cycle paths and pedestrian crossings, which increase their sense of control over their commute.

    Study findings show that the risk of burnout increases significantly when a commute lasts more than 20 minutes. Above 35 minutes, all employees are at increased risk of cynicism toward their job. Barreck believes this should lead employers to adopt flexible commuting arrangements.

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine