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6 Simple Steps To A Healthier Marriage

FAMILY LIFE

Having a healthy, supportive marriage is important to your overall well-being. But the stresses of life, work, family, and day-to-day problems can put a strain on even the best marriage at times.

Fortunately, there are some ways you can help keep your marriage strong – or work on problems before they become major issues. Here are some tips from the National Healthy Marriage Resource Center:

1. Make every effort to keep your commitment.

Marriage will have “good times and bad,” and you need to realize that challenges will happen. The key is to work through them and be aware that everyone has disagreements and difficulties. No marriage is perfect, but with extra effort from both partners, you can make yours last.

2. Make time for each other.

Even when you’re overwhelmed with work, children, or other tasks, don’t forget about your marriage. Set aside time for a dinner alone or even a weekend getaway if you can. If that’s not possible, have 15 to 30 minutes of time to talk and connect each day – without TV or cell phones.

3. Have a sense of humor.

Life’s little mishaps are easier to take when you can laugh at them. Mistakes that don’t really hurt anyone don’t have to turn into arguments. Don’t focus on who’s to blame. Laugh at it if you can, and work on a solution together. Forgive your spouse (and yourself!) and try to find the humor in the situation.

4. Communication is key.

This is an important aspect of any marriage. Talk about what’s bothering you – and what you love. Listen to what your spouse is saying, and don’t be quick to defend yourself. No one has to “win” an argument. If you both listen and respect each other, a solution or compromise can usually be found.

5. Do “little” things for your spouse.

Make a favorite meal for the other person, do the dishes without being asked, or leave a love note. These small things can add up to big happiness. Just showing your spouse that you care about him or her will help build your marriage each day.

6. Choose your battles.

Before you get angry about something, ask yourself if it’s worth an argument. If it’s important to you, approach the subject calmly and be honest. If not, take a deep breath and focus your energy on better things.

Marriage isn’t always easy, but working to keep it strong and healthy can have big payoffs. People in healthy marriages have better mental health and may even live longer. Give your marriage the attention it deserves, and you’ll both enjoy the benefits.

© American Institute for Preventive Medicine

January 23, 2026
5 Ways To Change Habits

WELL-BEING

Our habits influence our health in many ways. You might have habits that help you stay healthy, such as taking a walk every day. Or you might have some habits you want to change, such as smoking or eating too much sugar.

Changing a habit takes time and effort, but you can do it. These tips will help you stay on track as you work toward healthy change:

1.Change only one thing at time.Trying to overhaul many parts of your life is hard. It can cause stress and make you worry about failure. Don’t change too many things at once.

2.Know why you’re making the change.If you don’t have a good reason, it can be hard to stay motivated. Keep a reason (or two) in mind as you work toward change. For instance, maybe you want to be able to run in a race. Or perhaps you want to lose weight so you can feel healthier or manage a health problem.

3.Get the support or skills you need.If you need help to quit smoking, your doctor can help you find tools to help. If you need help with changing eating habits, ask your doctor about nutrition help. Look for community resources and support groups.

4.Expect setbacks.Nearly everyone has setbacks when they try to change a habit. This is normal. When this happens, remember why you’re making the change. Then put the setback behind you and start again.

5.Avoid tempting situations.Certain things in your immediate environment can make you want to go back to your old habits. Figure out what these things are, and stay away from them. If you know you have trouble with “all you can eat” restaurants, don’t go to them. If you’re trying to quit smoking, avoid situations that make you crave cigarettes.

Finally, make sure your goal is realistic.

Healthy goals should be SMART:

* Specific: Avoid vague statements like, “eat healthier.”

* Measurable: Track milestones and know when you have met them.

* Action-oriented: Commit to your change and take action to meet it.

* Realistic: Avoid lofty, difficult changes.

* Time-based: Give yourself a deadline to meet certain steps toward your goal.

© American Institute for Preventive Medicine

January 23, 2026
8 Commandments For Living Long And Living Well

WELL-BEING

You won’t live forever, but you can’t live like there’s no tomorrow, because tomorrow is coming. You can prepare for tomorrow today by making smart lifestyle choices or changing poor health habits-it’s never too late to do that, says Dr. Edward Creagan in his book How Not to Be My Patient: A Physician’s Secrets for Staying Healthy and Surviving Any Diagnosis. Here are Dr. Ed’s eight commandments:

1. Form stable long-term relationships.

2. Maintain ideal body weight.

3. Eat a plant-based diet.

4. Be active.

5. No smoking.

6. Use alcohol in moderation, if at all.

7. Foster a sense of spirituality and a sense of connectedness to nature or your higher power or force.

8. Find meaning and purpose in life.

© American Institute for Preventive Medicine

January 23, 2026
Babies, Pacifiers & Thumb Sucking

FAMILY LIFE

Many babies use pacifiers or their fingers to soothe themselves. But which is best and when should they stop?

The thumb and finger habit

Many babies will suck on a favorite thumb or finger. This is normal. There are some good things about this habit:

* You don’t have to buy a pacifier. And, you don’t have to worry about it falling on the floor and getting dirty.

* A baby always has it when they need it.

There are some downsides to this habit, including:

* Babies may touch things and get germs on their hands. Then, these germs get in their mouth.

* Thumb sucking may increase the risk of ear infections.

* You can’t take it away when you want them to quit the habit!

Using a pacifier

Many babies get pacifiers right after birth and use them for months or years. They can be helpful because they:

* Can reduce pain during shots or blood draws.

* They may reduce the risk of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS).

* You can take them away when you want them to stop using it.

Pacifiers aren’t always good. They can:

* Cause problems with breastfeeding.

* Get lost or fall on a dirty floor or surface.

* Increase the risk of ear infections.

* Cause dental problems with long-term use (longer than 6 months).

Your child’s needs

Many parents find that they need to allow their baby to soothe with fingers or a pacifier. Without it, their baby may be fussy or may not sleep well. Keep these things in mind when weighing the pros and cons:

* It’s best to use pacifiers in babies under 6 months. After 1 year of age, babies should start to wean off the pacifier.

* Don’t put honey or anything else on a pacifier. Wash it often and especially after it touches the floor or dirty objects.

* Thumb and finger sucking can be hard to stop. If your child doesn’t stop by age 4, talk to their doctor.

If you have questions about pacifier use or thumb sucking, talk to your child’s pediatrician.

Source: American Academy of Family Physicians

© American Institute for Preventive Medicine

January 23, 2026
9 Easy Ways To Manage Stress

SUCCESS OVER STRESS

Don’t let stress take over your day! Try to do one (or a few!) of these things to start feeling better:

1.Connect with friends:Meeting up with other people can help reduce symptoms of stress and increase feelings of happiness.

2.Meditation:Meditation, such as mindfulness, is a proven way to help reduce stress.

3.Deep breathing:Slow, deep breaths can calm the body’s stress response and help you relax.

4.Playing with pet:Walking the dog or petting an animal companion may calm you.

5.Yoga:Practicing yoga can help the body relax. Try doing yoga videos at home or attending a local class.

6.Listen to music:Music helps the body cope with stress. Listen to music that makes you feel happy or relaxed.

7.Read a book:Escape to another world and take your mind off the day with a favorite book.

8.Exercise:Regular exercise has many benefits, including improving your mental health and stress management.

9.Massage:A massage not only feels good, but it can help reduce stress and muscle tension.

Sources: Anxiety and Depression Association of America, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, National Institute of Mental Health

© American Institute for Preventive Medicine

January 23, 2026
A Healthy Diet Helps With Stress

SUCCESS OVER STRESS

Can the foods you eat help you cope with stress? Yes, according to experts at the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics. When you can’t avoid stress completely, focus on these foods to help you through it:

Whole grains and healthy carbohydrates

Whole grain bread, pasta, brown rice and sweet potatoes are all complex carbohydrates, which may help boost feel-good hormones in the brain.

Heart-healthy fats

Foods rich in omega-3 fats, such as salmon, flax seeds and walnuts may help improve mood and reduce stress and anxiety.

Soothing hot teas

Lavender and chamomile teas are good choices to help you relax and potentially get better sleep – keys to dealing with stress.

Dark chocolate

The antioxidants in this treat may help reduce stress. Be sure to keep your portion to one ounce or less a day, and choose dark varieties only. Milk and white chocolates do not offer these benefits.

© American Institute for Preventive Medicine

January 23, 2026