Tag: practice

  • Practice Assertiveness

    Healthylife® Weigh

    Part 4

    Group friends enjoying a meal at home.

    Practice responding to common scenarios. Below are sample responses to a few statements and situations.

    “One piece of chocolate cake won’t hurt you.”

    You’re right, but a whole cake of pieces will! Since I’m not eating chocolate cake as often, I’ll enjoy a couple of bites with you. -OR-  I’m not eating chocolate cake as often. I’ll have a piece another time.

    “I made it just for you.”

    Wow, I really appreciate you thinking of me! I’m cutting back on how much I eat that treat right now. Can I have just a taste?

    “What’s the matter? Don’t you like it?”

    I am enjoying it, but since I’m changing how I eat, I’m eating the amount that’s just right for me.

    “You’ve been on every diet there is. This one won’t work either.”

    I appreciate your concern for my success, but this time my goal is a healthy lifestyle change and the weight loss is secondary. I’m doing things differently this time.

    Someone takes you on a “surprise” trip to the ice cream parlor.

    What a surprise! I’m going to enjoy a kiddie-size ice cream. Next time, maybe we could go for a walk, go someplace different, etc.

    Someone asks you to do something during planned physical activity time.

    Thanks for the invite, but I have plans to go to the gym today. How about we take a look at our schedules and find a time that works for both of us to do something in the future. Or, would you like to join me?

    You look great! You don’t need to change anything you’re doing!

    Thanks for the compliment! But, I want to look and FEEL my best so it’s important for me to keep implementing healthier lifestyle choices for myself.

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine

  • Remember This: You Can Improve Your Memory

    WELL-BEING

    Image of man with hand on his head.

    Worried because you searched a half hour before finding your reading glasses or car keys? Concerned that it took a couple minutes to remember the name of the familiar-looking woman who said hello to you in the restaurant?

    You probably don’t have much to worry about, said Dr. George Grossberg, an internationally recognized Alzheimer researcher and director of geriatric psychiatry at Saint Louis University School of Medicine. As annoying as it may be, temporary “tip of the tongue” forgetfulness is one of the changes that happens as we age.

    “If, on the other hand, the information is important to us, isn’t there when we want it, and doesn’t ever come back to us, that’s a more serious problem. The person who has Alzheimer’s disease and misplaces her reading glasses probably won’t even remember that she needs them to see. She knows the man next to her is familiar, but can’t remember that he’s her grandson and his name is Mark.”

    “In our society, we’re all on chronic systems overload. We’re multi-tasking – talking on our cell phones, listening for beepers to go off, walking into a store to shop,” he said. “It’s very easy for certain things to get lost in the shuffle. That’s not Alzheimer’s disease.”

    Dr. Grossberg offers this recipe for brain health:

    *  Try to figure out what is causing your forgetfulness. Did you make a wrong turn while driving while you were talking on a cell phone and listening to the radio? Maybe you’re trying to do too many things at once and need to put down the phone or turn off  the tunes.

    *  Exercise your body. Aerobic exercise improves your cardiovascular health. Exercise also increases your “feel-good” brain chemicals, which improve your mood and prevents depression which is a risk factor for Alzheimer’s disease.

    *  Exercise your mind. Research shows mental challenge can help rewire connections in the brain. So find a new hobby, learn to play chess, use your left hand if you’re right-handed, or study a foreign language.

    *  Take care of yourself. Control risk factors for cardiovascular disease such as high blood pressure, smoking, high cholesterol, and obesity to help decrease your risk.

    *  Get a good night’s sleep. Not getting enough deep, restful sleep causes mental impairment later in life. Besides, if you’re sleep deprived, you won’t think clearly and are more likely to forget in the present time.

    *  Feed your brain. Some research shows antioxidant vitamins have protective powers against Alzheimer’s disease. Some B vitamins, especially B-12 and folate, are very important in how brain cells function. Talk with your doctor about taking vitamin supplements.

    *  Check your meds. Discuss, with your doctor, if any prescribed and over-the-counter medications you take could cause memory or concentration problems.

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine