Tag: Family Life

  • Dealing With Family Arguments

    FAMILY LIFE

    Mother comforting her young son who's upset.

    It’s normal to have arguments with your children and spouse. Children learn to voice their opinions through their family first. And all close relationships have disagreements sometimes.

    But arguments don’t have to be hurtful.

    Handle disagreements in a positive way:

    *Pick your battles:Don’t fight over every disagreement. Decide if small things are worth an argument. Walk away from an argument when it’s not an important matter.

    *Be open.Try to see others’ point of view. Stop and listen to what they’re saying and really consider it before responding.

    *Set boundaries.Arguments should not include name calling, insults or disrespect. Try to avoid shouting, too. If things get heated, take a break and say you’ll discuss it later when everyone feels calmer.

    *Look at root causes.Are you arguing with the same person all the time? Or are you having the same argument with multiple people? Think about why this is happening, and what you can do to stop having these conflicts. Consider this preventive care for your relationships.

    *Remember that you’re an example.Children see how parents argue. Think about how you would want them to handle a disagreement, and try to model that behavior.

    Source: American Academy of Pediatrics

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine

  • A Parents Guide To Gaming

    FAMILY LIFE

    Father and son playing virtual games.

    Gaming is a popular past-time among this generation of kids. As a parent, here are some things to know to keep gaming safe.

    *  Moderation is key. Set healthy limits on how much video game time you allow your kids.

    *  Know what they’re playing. Some games are better than others. If your kid struggles with mental health, help them find better games.

    *  Prioritize sleep. It’s common for gaming to interfere with healthy sleep habits. Set boundaries that prioritize sleep.

    *  Take breaks. Teach your kids to schedule regular breaks into their gaming time. Stepping away is good for mental health.

    *  Stay connected off-line. Keep your kids grounded in the real world by engaging in screen-free activities together.

    *  Game with your kids. Get involved with your kids’ interests by gaming with them (in moderation!).

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine

  • A To Z Guide To Help Kids Be Healthy & Safe

    Child Safety

    A is for Always use car safety.

    *  When riding in a car, always use seat belts. Use an approved child-safety seat that is right for your child’s age and weight. Install and use it as directed.

    *  Children should ride in the back seat until they are older than age 12 years.

    B is for Back to sleep.

    To lower the risk for sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS):

    *  Place a baby (up to 12 months old) on his or her back to sleep. The mattress should be firm and fit tightly in the crib.

    *  Make sure the baby’s face is not covered during sleep. Do not have pillows, quilts, stuffed toys and other soft products in the crib.

    C is for Cross the street safely.

    *  Teach your child to cross at street corners and obey safety signs.

    *  Look left, then right, then left again before crossing the street. Look straight and left and right while crossing the street.

    D is for Dental health.

    Don’t lay a baby down with a bottle left in the mouth.

    Start brushing your child’s teeth when his or her first tooth appears. Brush the teeth 2 or more times a day. At age 3 or 4, teach your child how to brush. A child younger than 7 years old may need your help to do a thorough job.

    Take your child for dental checkups every 6 months. Follow the dentist’s advice for flossing and how to get enough fluoride.

    Limit sticky, chewy, and sweet food and drinks.

    E is for Exercise.

    *  Make exercise a family activity. Walk. Bike. Dance. Swim. Play basketball and other sports. Include children in household activities like cleaning, dog-walking, and lawn work.

    *  Experts suggest at least 60 minutes of moderate physical activity a day for most children.

    *  Limit TV and computer time.

    F is for Feed your child healthy foods.

    G is for Give positive feedback.

    *  Praise good behaviors.

    *  Hug, read, and play together.

    H is for Hand washing.

    Teach your child to wash his or her hands often. Show them how to do it the right way. Use soap and running water. Take at least 20 seconds to wash the hands. This is the amount of time it takes to sing “Happy Birthday” two times. Dry the hands with clean paper towels that can be thrown away.

    Hand washing is important before your child eats and after he or she goes to the bathroom, plays, handles pets, and sneezes or coughs.

    I is for Install.

    *  Install smoke alarms. Install carbon monoxide detectors, too.

    *  Follow the rules of the city you live in.

    *  Check to see that they work well. Do this every month.

    *  Ask your local fire department for help, if you need it.

    J is for Join.

    Join your child in being physically active and in eating healthy foods. Join group activities as a family.

    K is for Keep harmful things out of children’s reach. These include:

    *  Medicines and vitamins. Store these in “child- safe” bottles.

    *  Bleach and other household products. Read labels to find out which ones can harm a child and for first aid information.

    *  Matches, lighters, guns and bullets.

    *  All knives and sharp utensils.

    L is for Listen and Learn.

    Listen to your child.

    Learn about your child’s interests. Learn who their friends are, too.

    Learn child first aid and CPR.

    M is for Medicine safety.

    *  When you give medicine to your child, make sure it is the right kind and dose for your child’s weight.

    *  Give medicine as advised by your child’s doctor.

    *  Do not give aspirin to anyone under 19 years of age due to its link to Reye’s Syndrome.

    N is for Never leave a baby, toddler, or young child unattended.

    *  Never leave a baby alone on a bed or table.

    *  It takes only seconds for a toddler or curious children to get into something they should not be into.

    *  Never leave a child alone in a bathtub or baby bath.

    *  Never leave a child alone in a car and around cars.

    O is for Obey traffic laws and other rules.

    *  Laws and rules are made to keep people safe. Teach your child to obey them.

    *  Set rules that your child needs to follow.

    P is for Poison Control Center hotline.

    This number is 800.222.1222. Keep it by each phone. Program it in your cell phone.

    Q is for Quit Smoking!

    *  Smoking and secondhand smoke are very harmful to you and your child.

    *  Don’t smoke. Don’t let your child smoke.

    *  Do not allow smoking in your home.

    *  If needed, get help to quit smoking. Get help from your doctor or from 800.QUIT.NOW (784.8669) andwww.smokefree.gov.

    R is for Role model.

    *  Children copy what they see.

    *  Eat healthy foods. Do regular exercise.

    S is for Safety-proof the house.

    *  Set the thermostat on your water heater to 120ºF or less.

    *  Put safety plugs in outlets.

    *  Teach your child to stay away from the stove.

    *  Keep guard rails around space heaters. Gate off unsafe areas.

    *  Do not let young children get toys or other things with small parts. They could choke on them.

    *  Never leave a child alone near water. Wear life jackets when boating or near a lake. Empty buckets with water, etc. right away after use.

    *  Get more safety tips from Safe Kids Worldwide atwww.usasafekids.org.

    T is for Talk to your child.

    Talk about ways to be healthy and safe. Tell your child what you expect of him or her. Tell your child often that you love him or her.

    U is for Use products that are safety approved for kids.

    *  These include: Car seats, cribs, playpens, toys, and sleepwear.

    *  Find out if a product is safe or has been recalled from The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission atwww.cpsc.gov.

    V is for Vaccines.

    W is for Wear protective gear.

    *  Wear a helmet when riding a bike, rollerblading, skating, etc.

    *  Wear the right gear when practicing and playing team sports.

    *  Wear clothes or material that reflects the light when outdoors in the dark.

    X is for eXams from a health care provider.

    Children age 3 years and older should get a yearly checkup. Children under age 3 years need checkups when they are 1, 2, 4, 6, 9, 12, 15, 18, and 24 months old.

    Y is for Yearly flu vaccine.

    A yearly flu vaccine is the single best way to prevent getting the flu. All children ages 6 to 59 months should get a flu vaccine. So should others as advised by their doctors.

    Z is for ZZZZs (sleep).

    Get enough sleep each night:

    *  Adults need at least 7 to 9 hours.

    *  Teens need at least 8-1⁄2 to 9-1⁄2 hours.

    *  After 6 months of age, most children need 9 to 12 hours. Up to age 5 years, children may also take daytime naps for a total of 1⁄2 to 2 hours a day.

    Children's Self-Care book by the American Institute for Preventive Medicine. www.HealthyLife.com. All rights reserved.

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine

  • Home Safe Home

    Home Safety

    Protect your family from accidents, injuries, and intruders.

    You should feel safe, protected, and comfortable in your home, even when things go wrong. Make sure you’re doing everything possible to protect yourself and your family. Lock the doors, even when you are home. Install and maintain smoke alarms and carbon monoxide detectors. Plan an escape route in case of a disaster.

    Safety Tips:

    *  Use a peephole at the front door.

    *  If you live alone, arrange for daily contact with a neighbor or relative.

    *  Post emergency numbers and teach children how to call 9-1-1.

    *  Stock first-aid supplies.

    *  Keep chemicals out of your children’s reach.

    *  Lock guns in one place and bullets in another.

    *  Keep a fire extinguisher handy.

    *  Use grab bars and safety mats or nonskid tape in your tub and shower.

    *  Keep stair areas well-lit. Keep all walkways clear  of clutter.

    *  Make sure there is a clear path for walking from room to room.

    *  Never leave young children alone in the bathtub or on a bed or table.

    Ways to get through a disaster faster:

    Write down a plan. Rehearse it and hope you never need it!

    *  Create separate plans for different disasters, such as a house fire, flood, tornado, etc. Practice drills for each plan with the family.

    *  Take a first-aid course.

    *  Choose a check-in person who is unlikely to be involved in the same event.

    *  Plan two places to meet. Choose one at or near your home. Choose another one at a location farther away, in case you can’t get home.

    *  If you have kids in school, find out about the school’s crisis plan. Make sure the school has current phone numbers for you and other caregivers. Sign forms that allow the release of your kids to family members or friends.

    *  If you have pets, plan for their safety.

    Action Step

    Set up plans to be ready for weather disasters. Contact your cell phone carrier to see if you can get free Wireless Emergency Alerts.

    Ways to Well-Being book by the American Institute for Preventive Medicine. www.HealthyLife.com. All rights reserved.

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine

  • Prevent Drowning

    Home Safety

    Do This, Not That

    According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC):

    *  Drowning ranks 5th among the leading causes of unintentional injury death in the United States.

    *  About 10 people die from unintentional drowning every day. Of these, 2 are children aged 14 or younger.

    *  An additional 347 people die each year from drowning in boating-related incidents.

    *  Drownings are the leading cause of death for young children ages 1 to 4. Most of these drownings occur in home swimming pools.

    *  Among adolescents and adults, alcohol use is involved in up to 70% of deaths associated with water recreation, almost a quarter of Emergency Department visits for drowning, and about 1 in 5 reported boating deaths. Alcohol influences balance, coordination, and judgment. Its effects are heightened by sun exposure and heat.

    General Guidelines

    Safe at Home - Do This, Not That Book. Published by the American Institute for Preventive Medicine. www.HealthyLife.com. All rights reserved.

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine

  • Disinfecting Your Home Safely

    WELL-BEING

    Bucket with cleaning supplies.

    It’s a good idea to regularly disinfect surfaces in your home. This can help prevent you or others from getting sick. Here’s how to do it safely:

    *  Check that your disinfectant is EPA-approved. Look for an EPA registration number on the product.

    *  Read all the directions and warnings on the package.

    *  Use soap and water first if the surface is dirty. Then apply your disinfectant.

    *  Let it sit for the “contact time” listed on the package. Make sure the surface stays wet for the whole time.

    *  Wear disposable gloves when using disinfectants. Throw them away after each use.

    *  Wash your hands when you’re done.

    *  Keep all disinfectants out of reach of children and pets.

    Source: Environmental Protection Agency

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine

  • Poison Prevention Starts At Home

    WELL-BEING

    Image of posion cans with warning labels.

    Did you know more than 90 percent of all poisonings happen at home? While children are affected the most, people of all ages can be harmed by poisoning. Here’s what to know to make your home safe.

    Caring for cleaners

    Do not mix household cleaners or other products. The chemicals in these products can create a toxic gas when mixed. Never mix bleach with ammonia products or other cleaners. Use only one product at a time.

    Keep cleaners, chemicals, medicines, and anything that could be poisonous locked up and put away.

    Mindful of medicines

    Never share prescription medicines with anyone. The other person may not be able to safely take your medicine. Or, they could be taking another medicine that isn’t safe when mixed with yours. Make sure your doctor or pharmacist knows about all medicines you are taking.

    Keep all medicines clearly labeled with the type of medicine and dosage. If you don’t understand your medicine or how much to take, ask your doctor or pharmacist.

    Don’t try to take medicines in the dark, because you could accidentally take the wrong one. Keep all medicines, even over-the-counter ones, put away and out of reach of children.

    Battery safety

    Treat batteries like poison. Keep them away from children.

    The small, round “button” batteries are especially dangerous because they are easy for children to swallow. A swallowed battery can cause permanent damage to the throat and even death within just a couple of hours.

    Beware of e-cigarettes

    E-Cigarettes are shaped like cigarettes but they contain a small heater and battery. The “juice” used inside these devices contains high levels of nicotine. Even a tiny amount of the juice from e-cigarettes can cause poisoning in a child. It can cause seizures and even death.

    Keep e-cigarettes away from children at all times. If you throw used e-cigarette juice in the trash, wrap it up and take it outside or someplace where a child cannot get to it.

    Know the number

    If you think you or someone else has been exposed to poison, call (800) 222-1222. This connects you to your local poison center. The call is free and confidential. They can tell you what to do next. Do not try to treat poisoning yourself with home remedies.

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine

  • After-Dark Joggers, Heed This Advice

    Personal Safety

    Image of people walking/jogging in the dark.

    If you walk, run, or jog after sundown, the following tips help motorists spot you.

    *  Attach reflective tape to the front and back of your clothes.

    *  Carry a lit flashlight.

    *  Don’t use the road; stay on the shoulder, or preferably the sidewalk. Move against (facing) traffic if you must use the shoulder.

    *  Be aware of your surroundings and plan to jump to safety if a vehicle veers toward you.

    A Year of Health Hints book by the American Institute for Preventive Medicine. www.HealthyLife.com. All rights reserved.

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine

  • Home Safety Checklist

    Home Safety

    *  Keep your doors locked.

    *  Use a peephole in the front door.

    *  If you live alone, arrange for daily contact with a neighbor, relative, etc.

    *  Clearly post emergency numbers. Teach children how to call 9-1-1, etc. for help.

    *  Stock first aid supplies. In case of accidental poisoning, call the Poison Control Center (800.222.1222) for advice.

    *  Install smoke alarms and a carbon monoxide detector. Check them every 6 months. Keep a fire extinguisher handy.

    *  Never smoke in bed or when you feel drowsy. Better yet, don’t smoke at all!

    *  If you use a space heater, make sure it has an emergency shut off.

    *  Plan an escape route in case of fire. Practice it with all household members every couple of months.

    *  Keep flashlights handy.

    *  Use night lights.

    *  Keep stair areas well lit.

    *  Have snow and icy patches cleared from the sidewalk and steps.

    *  Be careful or stay home if it is icy or slippery outside.

    *  Monitor your medication use. Let your doctor know if medicine(s) affect your vision, balance, etc. If prescribed sedatives or tranquilizers, be careful when you take them. They can increase the risk of falls.

    *  Don’t get up too quickly after lying down, resting, or eating a meal. Low blood pressure can cause dizziness.

    *  Wear nonslip, snug-fitting shoes and slippers.

    *  Use safety mats or nonskid tape in your tub and shower. Install grab bars in the shower and tub, too.

    *  If you use a shower bench, use one with rubber tips on its legs.

    *  Before getting in the tub, test the bath water. Make sure it is not too hot.

    *  Never lock the bathroom door.

    *  Use a cane or walker, if necessary.

    *  Install handrails on both sides of the stairs. Keep clutter off stairs.

    *  Don’t use loose area rugs. See that carpet on stairs is nailed down securely.

    *  Arrange furniture so there is a clear path for walking. Test if furniture is sturdy enough to lean on.

    *  Clear away phone or electrical wires from walk paths.

    *  Use a step stool with a safety rail.

    *  Be alert to spills or wet floors.

    *  To pick up things, bend at your knees and keep your back straight. Don’t stoop.

    Healthier at Home book by the American Institute for Preventive Medicine. www.HealthyLife.com. All rights reserved.

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine

  • Prevent Falls

    Home Safety

    Do This, Not That

    *  Falls are the leading cause of non-fatal injuries for children ages 0 to 19. Every day, about 8,000 children are treated in U.S. emergency rooms for fall-related injuries.

    *  Almost 86,000 fall injuries each year are linked with dogs and cats. This includes falling or tripping over the animal or its toys and/or being pulled down or pushed by a dog.

    *  One out of 3 people age 65 and older takes a bad fall every year. And in this age group, falls are the leading cause of death by injury.

    Older Adults

    People with Special Needs

    General Guidelines

    Safe at Home - Do This, Not That Book. Published by the American Institute for Preventive Medicine. www.HealthyLife.com. All rights reserved.

    © American Institute for Preventive Medicine